Beginner’s Guide to choosing your first Sex Toy
At NottieDotti.com, we offer the highest quality and best selection of sex toys so you can save time and purchase with confidence. Buying a sex toy for the first time is an exciting experience. We hope you find the following information useful in helping you choose. If you have any questions come in and ask or contact us and we will happily and discretely help you to make the right choice. Have fun!
First off let me just say there is nothing to be afraid of here or embarrassed sex toys are fun safe and will give years of pleasure if you look after them properly. To begin with you should start small and cheap because you can’t know what kind of sex toy will suit you. Also there are sex toys to suit every taste but take it slowly and you’ll be fine.
Usually this is where you read a few Do’s & Don’ts. We’ve only just got a few Don’ts. As for Do’s, well, do try everything else you won’t be sorry.
Don’t Spend too Much
It might seem a bit strange for NottieDotti.com to be saying to customers to not spend too much. Well we want you to be happy customers with the right product because happy customers come back. But if you have a pressing need to blow a load of cash feel free we won’t complain too loudly.
If this is your first sex toy you really need to go for one of the cheaper options. These cheaper sex toys are a good way to introduce yourself to the sex toy without breaking the bank. The sex toys we sell are of top quality so rest assured when choosing a cheaper sex toy you will still end up with a good product that if you look after properly will last a long time.
If you are still not sure what to get, then it’s best to stick with simple and inexpensive toys. That way if the first toy didn’t quite hit the spot, you will be happier not to have spent a lot of money.
Don’t ignore the details page for the Sex Toy
We try to be as informative as we can on the product pages so please make sure you read the details of the sex toy. This is where you should be told anything important you need to know about the product. What kind of power source has it? Is it waterproof?
You really need to read up on what it is you are actually buying because a picture doesn’t give the whole story.
Don’t go too big
I know most people believe bigger is better and even more so when it comes to sex, well for a first sex toy don’t go too big. Too small and you can still enjoy it, too big and it’s a problem. Unless you’re sure go for one of the smaller or medium sizes.
There could be a number of dimensions mentioned too. Insertable length if mentioned tends to be an important one as well as circumference sometimes called girth. You need to build up to the bigger sex toys especially for anal toys. So remember start small and work your way up.
Anything over 7 inches insertable would be big so just be sure you know what you are ordering. The measurements given on vibrators are usually a combination of
- Insertable Length – the length of vibrator that you can insert
- Girth – This is the diameter at the widest part of the insertable length
- Length – which is the total length of the vibrator tip to tip.
Try not to choose a vibrator that has a rotation feature or a thrusting feature yet
If you have a rotating rabbit vibrator, you may notice that if you clench or grip the rotating shaft too hard it may stop working. These types of toys are intended for rotating inside when someone is relaxed and though they can withstand some pressure, they are not intended to be used under a great deal of pressure. If you clench your Kegel muscles around them, you may notice that they slow or stop. Vibrators that have rotation features are not intended for use in small vaginas; we indicate the girth, width or circumference of the vibrator in the descriptions. If you still have queries, please choose one that doesn’t have a rotation feature.
Don’t forget the little extras
Where would Batman be without Robin or Sonny without Cher or …well you get the idea. The best sex toy in the world will need a little lube to get the most out of it. We stock a great selection of lubricants for every activity. Start with a water based lubricant because it will be fine with all sex toys.
You will also want a sex toy cleaner if you want to keep everything fresh and hygienic and the sex toys will love you for it by lasting much longer. They don’t cost much and are a great investment.
Where to Next?
Ok I’ve given you a couple of important tips to help you avoid a few of the common mistakes. Still got questions? You can always call us or email us with a question we’d love to hear from you and will be delighted to help you choose your perfect bedroom partners.
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