NottieDotti explains Vibrators
Many women have their first orgasm with a vibrator, and most women find it easier to reach orgasm with a vibrator then by any other way. Furthermore, most women cannot reach orgasm through intercourse alone, so if you’re a male with a female partner and think it would be sexy and hot for her to have an orgasm while you’re having intercourse, a vibrator could be the best present you could get. Whether purchasing a toy for yourself, for a female partner, for individual or partnered use, the reality is the same: vibrators can make orgasms happen more reliably and, if desired, quickly. A vibrator is the toy most likely to make the biggest difference to your sex life!
The next step is to determine which one is the right one for you. These days, purchasing your first vibrator is both easier yet also more complicated. There are literally hundreds of thousands of sex toys to choose from, this also makes choosing a good sex toy much harder. Among these huge variety of sex toys, probably not all are suitable for you.
Vibrators vs Dildos
Vibrators vibrate while Dildos don’t! The vibrations are powered by either electricity or batteries. Phallic-shaped vibrators, which we call vibrating dildos, are technically vibrators. Seventy percent of women reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone, rather than sexual penetration, so for most beginners a vibrator is the best place to start, rather than a dildo.
Meet the Vibes
Rabbit Vibrators – The hit television show “Sex and the City” popularized rabbit vibrators. They have a nice bulbous dildo bit and a delicate little clitoris bit to stimulate both parts at once. The protruding part (that stimulates the clitoris) is not always a pair of rabbit ears but this is how the original looked and defined the category. Some Rabbit Vibrators have shafts that can spin in circles, rock from side to side or thrust upward to much better mimic the sensations of penetrative sex and such Rabbit Vibrators are meant for advance users. These aside, they are a good all-rounder and a good vibrator to start with but as its popularity shows it is loved by experts too.
G-spot Vibrators – These make it easier for women to locate their G-spots. They feature an upward curve to guarantee maximum stimulation for this sensitive spot throughout penetration. G-spot stimulation is associated with female ejaculation or squirting, making G-spot vibrators a popular way to experiment. You will also find that most of the slimmer g-spot vibrators work really well as male prostate vibrators too.
Bullet Vibrators – As the name suggests, these vibrating adult toys are shaped like a bullet and come with either a pointed or rounded tip. Many women experience their first clitoral orgasm with the help of a bullet or egg vibrator. They are discrete and fairly affordable for first-time buyers. They come in many various designs, range in speeds from single to multiple speeds and vibrating patterns. They are a must-have for every woman’s toy collection, regardless of their experience with adult toys, as they are discreet, powerful and versatile. If inserting a bullet vibrator, cover it with a condom first and pull on the condom, not on the vibrator.
Egg Vibrators – They come as either small eggs or look like miniature vibes. There is a small cord and remote attached to the vibe. They are fairly powerful for their size. Many women experience their first clitoral orgasm with the help of a bullet or egg vibrator. If inserting an egg vibrator, cover it with a condom first and pull on the condom, not the battery cord. Pulling on the cord to remove an egg will damage the toy. Since Egg Vibrators are controlled by a remote (either wired or wirelss), they allow you to discreetly indulge in a little public play. Love eggs are designed to nestle against the G-spot, providing vibrating speeds and patterns directly to your most sensitive internal areas.
Traditional Vibrators – These are typically long and straight. Some prefer the sleek, cool feel of a metal vibrator whilst others prefer it to be made of plastic. They are designed mainly for insertion.
Realistic Vibrators (Vibrating Dildos) – These ultra-realistic sex toys are shaped to anatomically resemble a man’s penis and some come with ribbed grooves to mimic the feel of a real penis. Frequently multispeed with a twist-base operation for easy control.
Pocket Rocket Vibrators – They look like mini pocket flashlights and are very discrete, affordable and simple to use. They are the best selling clitoral vibrators in the West. Most pocket rockets have several caps or sleeves that can be interchanged to give different sensations! Stimulation of clit, nipples or just general stimulation to those special spots are some of its uses. Like bullets these are smaller and often easily tucked away inside a purse or over night bag.
Wands & Massagers – They were first marketed as a massager for shoulders and backs. They are characterized by bulbous vibrating heads attached to wand handles and used for external vibration. Built more like a household appliance than your typical adult store novelty, so expect a significantly longer lifespan in exchange for the extra bulk and having to stay close to an electrical outlet. An array of attachments get these external toys ready for insertion play, too. Currently, rechargeable and battery operated ones are out in the market as well.
Anal Vibrators – They are either long and slender or slightly diamond-shaped. Some have a handle, a rings at the end or a flared base to prevent them from slipping into the rectum. Anal Vibrators was once a man’s play as the prostate is located in the anus. Women have also begun to appreciate the pleasure they receive from anal stimulation.
Couple Vibrators – These vibrators are usually U-shaped and they fit snugly against the clit and the G-spot, stimulating both at once. The vibe is small enough that your partner can penetrate you and enjoy the vibrations him or herself.
Strap on Vibrators – They sound scary but they don’t have to be. They probably are not the first vibrator you want to buy and are kind of specific in the nature of their use. But, for willing couples, are a great experience. They are basically Vibrating Dildos with movements controlled by the hips.
Butterfly Vibrators – They are Strap On Vibrators and were invented before the Rabbit Vibrators! They provide hands-free vibrating stimulation directly to your clitoris and labia. Butterfly vibrators get their name from the shape of the clitoral stimulator which is formed like a butterfly with its wings spread, allowing the stimulation of the entire area of the female genitalia. Some have an have an insertable shaft to offer simultaneous internal and external stimulation. Some are remote-controlled and some offer anal stimulation as well.
Finger Vibrators – They are tiny bullet vibrators mounted in a textured sleeve that can be used as a ring. Since Bullet vibrators usually slip when lube is involved, Finger Vibrators are a good tool for clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex. They are great for solo pleasures as well because certain people might have tired hands while waiting for orgasm.
Vibrating Cock Rings – Cock Rings are designed to prolong erections. Some have built-in clit bumpers to allow Women to enjoy the cock ring as much as the Men does. Vibrating Cock Ring stimulates the clitoris and when used upside down, it can stimulate the anus. The vibration travels through the shaft of a penis allowing the penis to be a Vibrating Dildo! They are effective for men with Erectile Dysfunction as they help to stimulate blood flow in addition to providing the added stimulation.